Most Black People Like Rap Music #racism

Note: As of tomorrow, I’ll return to my blogging “schedule” – I need to get back into a more positive frame of mind. At the beginning of 2016, I was debating whether or not I should tackle a series of “Shades of Black” for the next 2017 A to Z Challenge. And due to recent events and the positive exchanges I’ve had over the past few days, I have decided that I will…the issue now will be to decide on the words of my alphabet…

Don’t forget, it’s #TeaserTuesday tomorrow!

Originally published on July 8, 2015


“What do you mean that you don’t like rap music?”

He sounds truly amazed at my statement.

I, on the other hand, am getting more and more annoyed with his small talk.

He is leaning on the frame of his back door chatting me up because he has nothing better to do. I had forgotten my handy little stool so I am on my knees, trying to focus on changing the lock on the door of the empty apartment next to his. It’s really hot, sweat is pouring down my back and the booming base of rap music blaring from the apartment complex two doors down is getting on my last nerve.

“Yup, that’s what I said. I don’t like rap music.”

My hand slips as I try to keep the new lock balanced in place and everything, including my screwdriver, crashes to the fire escape floor.

“How can you not like rap? Have you looked at yourself in the mirror?”

I stop mid-reach to the items that had fallen.

Now, I can’t help myself but to look at him. I wipe the sweat from above my lip with my less-than clean hand.

Did he seriously just say that to me?

“What do you mean?” I definitely need him to clarify before I say anything else.

“You’re Black and you don’t like rap? That’s pretty weird. Most Black people like rap.”

I feel my face getting hot and it’s not from the heat on this beautiful summer day. I see this conversation going in a number of different directions, most of them not good. And getting angry is at the top of my short list of options since I am not in the greatest of moods.

But in looking at him, I can see that he genuinely believes what he is saying and isn’t being mean. And he isn’t trying to be stupid.

Well, at least not on purpose.

What is more surprising to me is that we are the same age and that he has such old-style stereotypical thinking. Then again, there is no age limit on the type of stereotypes a person can hold.

I choose to go a softer route, especially since his three kids are inside. Kids that are so constantly confined to the apartment that the other tenants in the building never even realized that children lived in the small building.

I pick up my screwdriver, determined to get the lock installed once and for all so that I can flee from the heat and this conversation. I put my focus back on the task at hand and talk as I do.

“Well, then I guess that I am not most Black people. How many White friends do you have?”

“Uh, I don’t know. Lots.”

“Ok and out of all those White friends, how many of them like rap music?”

“Oh, lots of them do. But I personally hate it.”

“And how many Black friends do you have?”

He hesitates before answering. I can tell that he is not trying to stall with his answer, he’s just trying to count the number out in his head.

“I’d say 2 or 3.”

“Do they all like rap?”

“Uh, no.”

I try to remind myself that we all come from different backgrounds and experiences. The last thing I want to do is make him feel stupid. And I am not interested in schooling anyone today so I choose my words carefully and decide to make a light joke out of it.

“In your circle, it sounds like your White friends like rap music more than your Black friends. So it sounds to me like you should be the one looking in the mirror.”

He cocks his head to one side, contemplating what I just said.

“That’s funny. You may be right.”

He seems to have caught the undercurrent of my message – if you are going to generalize, at least do it based on your own personal experience.

We hear a loud crash from inside his apartment and then crying. He turns to head inside.



But just before he closes his door, he turns to me.

“Are you sure that you don’t like rap music?”

It takes all my energy to mask my frustration.

Very sure.”

©2015 Marquessa Matthews. All Rights Reserved.








33 thoughts on “Most Black People Like Rap Music #racism

  1. 80% of the sales are from white people and its always been that way. the industry is ran a certain way. he assumes because that is constantly thrown down our throats as the music of the time by mainly black artists,however this guy doesn’t know that the Johnny Mathis audience,Charley Pride audience,Al Jarreau audience doesn’t have to listen to rap

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  2. You have FAR more patience than I do, which is something I really admire. I could go on a rant. I could. I will not. Kudos to you for keeping cool and this post is awesome, well-written and very insightful. 🙂

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      • That’s definitely my type of rap. Today’s is ok. My son prefers Old School like me. 80 and 90s. Thank God! However, cursing can be a good thing. I had a ritual to listen to Dr. Dre’s Chronic 2001 before a presentation. And, What’s the Scenario will always be my go to for cleaning and shower routines. Ooh! I met KRS One in college! More of a philosopher and funny guy. He signed my book of poetry from English Lit.

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  4. I am neither black nor white – brown I guess and I find rap to be pretty awful and indecipherable, but i will admit to some being ‘not so bad’ – could i have a category of my own? 😉 Well handled by the way 😀

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  5. I love music of all kinds, so I get very, VERY annoyed when people ONLY want to ask me about rap or R & B…even when I bring up rock or Bach, they always turn it back to some rap song that they loved in the 90s or so.

    Simple-minded people are unable to look at others without pigeon-holing, I’ve learned!

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