unexpected

On February 10, 2020February 20, 2020 By MIn Blog

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A collapse.

Massive bleeding in the brain.

Unresponsive.

ICU.

Palliative care.

The decision by our overseas family that 24 to 48 hours will be enough time for loved ones and dear friends nearby to gather to say their goodbyes before the ventilator is turned off.

One 5 minute phone call changed everything, especially when it came unexpectedly in the middle of this Monday morning and you’re asked to break the horrible news to the person who will be the hardest hit on our side of the pond.

Well, this is what happened today and I’m still thinking, “Did this really happen? Am I dreaming?”

No, I’m not dreaming.

I won’t get into all the details but I will say this – when it comes to loved ones, no matter how busy you are, take the time and make the effort to spend quality time with them.

I’m glad that this has always been my approach with those around me near and far.

At least I can smile a bit and fondly remember the conversation I had with this relative just a few weeks ago where I was on the receiving end of all their advice for a certain situation.

The message behind this post?

Death is always a stark reminder that you never know when that last time will be so make it count.

11 thoughts on “unexpected”

Cyranny

Sorry for your loss, Marquessa… Letting a loved one go is one of the hardest things in life. *Big hugs*

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February 11, 2020 at 1:53 AM Reply
1. M
  
  Thanks Cyranny.
  
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  February 15, 2020 at 7:23 PM Reply
Felicia Denise

Exactly.

Prayers to you and yours. ❤

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February 11, 2020 at 4:29 AM Reply
1. M
  
  Thank you Fel!
  
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  February 15, 2020 at 7:23 PM Reply
Richmond Road

I could not agree with you more

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February 11, 2020 at 4:34 AM Reply
1. M
  
  🙂
  
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  February 15, 2020 at 7:23 PM Reply
K E Garland

Agreed sending condolences Marquessa 💜

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February 11, 2020 at 7:50 AM Reply
1. M
  
  Thanks Kathy!
  
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  February 15, 2020 at 7:24 PM Reply
jrvincente

So sorry to hear. 😦 Thanks for sharing. ❤

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February 11, 2020 at 6:24 PM Reply
Tikeetha T

Sending prayers to you and your family. I know what this feels like as I was in that same place in November. My dad came through and is out of the woods for now. I’m just taking it day by day and remembering to love the folks that matter.

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February 13, 2020 at 11:07 AM Reply
1. M
  
  Thanks for the prayers T. I’m praying for my aunt’s immediate family. She had a heart of gold.
  
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  February 15, 2020 at 7:22 PM Reply