If you don’t set BOUNDARIES, he will take advantage and will walk all over you.
ALL. OVER. YOU.
Set your BOUNDARIES early and don’t budge on them.
Believe me, there is a reason why someone wrote a book called, “Why Men Love Bitches – A Guide For Women Who Are Too Nice”.
Are your boundaries firm?
Bonus: I love the Therapy For Black Girls podcast. You may want to take a listen to these episodes called “What Are Boundaries and Why Do I Need Them” and “The Gift of Boundaries“. These are not an affiliate links, I’m simply sharing.
Marquessa 
This was something I had to learn early and quick. It was a steep learning curve, but once I had set my emotional boundaries I could have healthy relationships with other people. Not just romantic, either. Boundaries are important in families, friendships, and other social situations.
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Yes, Boundaries are important in all aspects of our relationships. However, for this month’s A to Z Challenge, I’m focusing on the romantic love situation specifically with men due to the recent tragedy that happened with a family member.
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Girls should be taught this beginning at a young age. Teaching them to simply be “nice” and go along to get along is a sure way to make them future victims.
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Agreed but the generations before me were more concerned about “appearances” and “being nice” than standing up for themselves.
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So true. And they “normalize” abuse as one more thing women have to put up with from men.
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I firmed up my boundaries recently. Some people didn’t like that… Oh well!
Stopping by from A to Z!
– Jayden Vincente
Erotic fiction author
https://jrvincente.com/a-to-z-2021/
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Too bad for them right? 🙂
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Well. All but maybe one or two of those things on that list are true for me. But I’m not sure I can fix that.
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