Like I said in “All I Ask“, I’m answering questions I receive from time to time…this is question #4.
Dr. K.E. Garland, aka Kathy and I have a number of things in common, one of them being the love of vacationing.
Kathy’s got a great book out, “The Unhappy Wife” that I would encourage you to get a copy of. Filled with many life lessons that also serve as “reminders” for others who have already dealt with similar challenges. The stories are more than read-worthy – they are group discussion-worthy.
Kathy asked me an easy but also hard question: What has been my favorite vacation?
If you follow my blog, you know that I love being anywhere near the ocean, preferably near the beach.
But I can’t say that I’ve had “a” favorite vacation.
I’ve had several “favorite” vacations for very different vacation-feeling-reasons like:
- the time my cousins and I invited the cruise DJ to dinner with the sole purpose of supplying him with our playlists for the week. We had no shame and the poor guy didn’t stand a chance. We danced, laughed, and shut the cruise disco down each and every night;
- my first solo vacation where I spent two weeks with a penthouse view of the ocean (a I’ll admit to using a smile), mainly bathing suits in my luggage and with “nothing” on my agenda. I did what I wanted, when I wanted, if I wanted to do it at all. No compromising and no competing interests. The simple pleasure of staying on the beach all day or in bed with the A/C cranked up watching Turner Classic movies and the Food Network because of the 40C degrees + outside…. It may sound boring to you but it was heaven to me;
- “staycations” that get my “to-do” list handled – repairs, redecorating, trying out new recipes, going to the movies, hanging out at the bookstore or just puttering around in my own space is “zen”. Again, boring for some but I’ve had some staycations that were more enjoyable than some “away” vacations .
Exotic destination vacations are great but a great vacation is really about the feeling you have inside and your state of mind.
What about you? What do you consider a great vacation?
All Rights Reserved ©2017 Marquessa Matthews
Disclaimer: I have no copyrights to the song and/or video and/or hyperlinks to songs and/or videos and/or gifs above. No copyright infringement intended.